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Being a Fool Is Not Necessarily a Permanent Condition

Welcome to this week’s Bill Harvey Blog
Created April 10, 2026

We have all been fooled into thinking that

In honor of the recent April Fool’s Day, some thoughts here about the idea of being a fool.

The word has had more than one meaning since it came into the English language in around the 13th Century. It comes from the Latin word for “bellows or inflated ball”, figuratively meaning an airhead. It came to English through French, where its connotations at one time were “the King’s jester” and at other times “insane” or even “a prostitute”. Even in English today, it has multiple meanings. It can mean someone who acts with poor judgment, a know-nothing, or someone who is gullible and can be easily taken in by a trickster.

In my opinion, each of us has a certain probability of doing something foolish at one point or another. We can be a fool for a moment or a day and then come out of it.

In today’s environment, in which the internet and AI enable scammers to trick even the smartest of us, we can be made fools of, possibly with greater frequency than in the past, if we are not cautious and patient enough. Acceleritis tends to cause us to always be rushing, and that leads to being a fool more often than we’d like.

It can make us feel really bad when we realize we have just now acted like a fool. We tend to quickly lose all confidence in ourselves. This is an overreaction and a dangerous one. Take it in stride; it’s part of life, it happens to all of us.

The most dangerous thing of all is to be stubbornly resistant to admitting that one has been played for a fool. Everyone in your life may be completely aware that you have been played like a violin and that you are in permanent and rigid denial. That makes others really lose respect for you. Much more than if you admitted your mistake.

Admitting that you can make mistakes, that you can be fooled, gains you respect from every person.

We all know how hard it is to admit our mistakes. When a person has the guts to do this difficult thing, everyone knows what reservoirs of integrity and strength undergird such actions.

Confucius said, “Someone who will not admit he made a mistake is making another one.”

Admitting mistakes is good because you can then learn from them. As you probably know, my cosmic philosophy is that we are here to learn, and that means making mistakes, for without mistakes, there cannot be much learning. And without admitting mistakes, there cannot be much learning.

There is a specific mental/emotional function which causes the refusal to admit mistakes. It’s called the ego.

Freud theorized that the ego was not the original self we are born with, but a mediator with the outside world, which forms as a functional center the first time our needs are thwarted. I agree with this theory; it jibes with my own personal science project of studying the way my own mind works for my entire life. Not that I remember the event of my ego coming into existence, but I can discern impulses coming from an egoistic source within myself from impulses arising from a different source within myself which is not so hung up on what happens to this particular body I’ve been assigned to this time around.

The two sources are not equally competent at making good decisions. I define good decisions as those whose outcomes are beneficial to all concerned. The ego is terrible at making such decisions. Its bias toward its own owner blinds it to opportunities to gain much more for that owner by making things come out all right for everyone involved in the situation.

The ego is an inferior part of the mind which makes decisions that end in our unhappiness and regret.

Unfortunately, not only do we live in a culture which feeds the dominance of the ego, the culture also creates a competitive race which has led to uncontrollable Acceleritis – inhuman amounts of information overload as a distraction. We are born in a relatively angelic state and are turned into egoists operating largely in Emergency Oversimplification Procedure (EOP). This causes us to mess things up on a grand scale, which condition is the one part of my narrative that is now universally recognized to be the unvarnished truth.

The Bible made the connection between “fool” and “ego” in Proverbs without using the word “ego” but by describing many of the main traits of egoistic behavior:

“In the Book of Proverbs, a fool is not merely someone lacking intelligence, but a person characterized by moral deficiency, arrogance, and a stubborn rejection of wisdom, discipline, and godly instruction. They are self-sufficient, quick-tempered, and prone to reckless speech that leads to ruin.

Usage Examples of “Fool” in Proverbs:

  • Rejection of Wisdom: “Fools despise wisdom and instruction” (Proverbs 1:7).
  • Arrogance: “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes” (Proverbs 12:15).
  • Uncontrollable Anger/Speech: “A fool gives full vent to his spirit” (Proverbs 29:11) and “A fool’s mouth is his ruin” (Proverbs 18:7).
  • Repeating Mistakes:

“Like a dog that returns to his vomit is a fool who repeats his folly” (Proverbs 26:11).

  • Quarrelsome: “It is an honor for a man to keep aloof from strife, but every fool will be quarreling” (Proverbs 20:3).

Synonyms and Types of Fools in Proverbs:

  • Simple/Simpleton: Gullible, naive, and easily led astray.
  • Scoffers/Scorner: Proud, mocking, and hostile toward correction.
  • Sluggard: Lazy and reckless with their responsibilities.
  • Babbling Fool: One whose speech is chaotic and foolish (Proverbs 10:8).

Common traits include being quick to anger, untrainable, and unteachable, often needing drastic, painful lessons to learn, as noted in Proverbs 27:22.”

– (Source: Google AI)

People who do not vote have been fooled. They think their votes don’t matter. They think they are powerless. They think the world is all screwed up far beyond anything they can do to make it better. It’s not true. In the 2024 election, 89 million eligible voters did not vote in the presidential election. That’s more people than voted for either candidate.

Some people who did vote know on some level that they have been fooled, but only some of them are willing to admit it.

We have all been fooled into getting into this polarized two-party headspace. We are all Americans, we are all citizens of the Earth, citizens of the universe, and in my estimation, we are all avatars of the One Consciousness that is the universe.

We have all been fooled into thinking that we are entirely separate from one another.

It’s not the end of the world to be fooled, nor to admit we were wrong about something.

We’re all fools to some degree, but we can gain back our self-respect and dignity by admitting our mistakes and moving on.

Happy belated April Fool’s Day! Happy glorious Spring!
May we all spring forward in all our inward and outward endeavors!

The Fool

Love to all,
Bill

 

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Smell the Sweetness

Volume 4, Issue 22

Annie was moving fast. She always moved fast. She did everything fast. She even laughed fast, and then quickly moved on to the next thing.

She whisked through the garden doing the necessary watering without noticing the sweet fragrance of new-mown grass and wildflowers. The softly scented breeze on her bare arms itself felt delicious and somehow combined into one thing with the scent. Faintly and unheard, a small inner voice related the moment to the song about a kiss you could build a dream on. The perfumed wind and immobile meditation could have been a winged heart dream but all this was literally beneath attention as Annie had things to do and if asked she would have said all her concentration was on getting the job done. There was some truth in that. She was intent on getting the tasks behind her, but not because there was good stuff ahead that she was eager to get to. And there was nothing like a state of concentration going on in her head.

Like so many of us, Annie’s mind was a mess. It was not focused. Her current movements were not based on a carefully-thought-out plan with transparent priorities. She was just keeping up with the have-to-do’s — the pervasive tone of life in the Accelerolithic Era. Distracted state precludes Flow state. There’s too much noisy messy input, with seemingly not enough time to process it.

Annie could be an artist. She is good with her hands and could envision a piece and create it. Doing that got her into the Flow state where she did her best work — her gift to the world.

Making money at her art seemed like an idle fantasy judging from the toughness of the world, her surroundings and friends and the lives they all led. There was great beauty in her surroundings but the mood created by the difficulty of making enough money to live pleasurably without constant fear of money problems made that beauty literally invisible.

If Annie were hypnotized and asked patiently for a long time about why she is always moving so fast, eventually she would come to realize something she does not know: it is because she is always unconsciously striving to make money. She feels without knowing it that she will make more money by doing everything as fast as she can. She does odd jobs for friends and acquaintances, like working in a dress shop, washing cars, walking dogs, and landscaping, so there is some logic in that unconscious thought. However, in reality the fast motion causes a slowdown in finished product due to the need to patch up things not done properly, which also eventually causes her to not get as much work from her employers as she would if everything were always done without things being left in the wrong places or half-done.

One layer deeper she might realize that the quest to make money was not really because she wanted to buy specific things so much as to please her partner and also to have other people be proud of her or realize that she is more capable than the way they have treated her.

Annie went to the mountaintop one day and although as the sun passed its zenith and the breeze began to be cold, she remained bare-armed and slipped into that waking dream where she was uplifted out of her Acceleritis and into the Flow state at what You Are The Universe calls “Soul-Level Two” — the bliss state, ananda. She was not moving fast. She was not under the dominance of any have-to-do compulsions. Her mind and body and every aspect of her were all lined up in the Game. There was no rush. She could see everything around her, hear everything, smell it all, enjoying the moment itself with no force causing her to lose freedom, break the fast on motion, in any direction.

This is the place to live at every moment. It is its own reward. Because we then give our finest performances at any beloved Game, we get paid the most money for it. We cannot get there by giving up as unrealistic the inner drive to do a specific thing we love to do, and settling into a mortgaged life of second-choice work that is steady and dependable. Like the hero or heroine in a movie, in real life we must pursue our highest calling, have the daring to do that extraordinarily risky seeming thing.

Then we will have the ability to concentrate, the prerequisite for Flow state. We will smell the sweetness of Life. And because the Universe is us, if we actually do what we are uniquely designed to do so that we provide true value to others, as if by magic the dreams will come true in the end.

“Do what you like to do. You’re going to be doing it for a long time.”

—George Burns, while puffing cigar

Best to all,

Bill

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Optimizing Startups in the Game of Life

Volume 3, Issue 41

Before launching into this week’s post, I want to share details of the memorial for our esteemed and fabled colleague, Erwin Ephron — a legend in his own time.

 Erwin Ephron Tribute

A memorial celebrating the life of Erwin Ephron will be held 5:30 pm on Dec. 5 at Simulmedia’s offices at 670 Broadway, New York. Capacity is limited and registrations will be accepted on a first-come, first-serve basis. If you’d like to attend, please contact ephronmemorial@mediapost.com. Please put “Remembering Erwin Ephron” in the subject line and provide your name, company/affiliation, email and phone number. 


You start by playing life as a game with the working hypothesis that the Universe is playing it with you, aware of you, because you are really the same Being as the Universe.

You live life this way not because you can prove with certainty that this is the truth about reality, but because even as a mere useful fiction it seems pragmatically superior to every other way of life.

You roll with the punches, seeing how they convey useful future-oriented information you need, which more than justifies the temporary discomfort.

You simply have more fun, seeing everything through this lens, feeling the love, seeing problems as opportunities.

You don’t drop anything because of this lens. It doesn’t lull you into a state where you can be tricked. Believe me, I have been in that other state of Candide-like naiveté suited to some other world, and it is dangerous when used here on planet Earth. You can’t assume everything will go your way instantly. That’s the fun part. Otherwise it would all be too easy, no drama element. Like a movie with no central conflict or predicament.

So playing the game of life recently I had a couple of nights in a row of dreams that left me feeling out of control. Probably a sense of not having allocated bandwidth to cover every detail, or maybe not even having the capacity to do so. Writing books, videos, blogs, consulting for interesting companies, and driving two startups is a lot on the plate.

I can’t help it about startups. I love startups. In the game of life startups are not only the most fun, they allow the growing tip of dreams of what might be possible to edge their way into reality.

Startups are the heart of the American Dream.

Technology startups are where the action has been for decades.

You can do a startup from wherever you are, although you might have to stand aside and allow your employer company to reap the benefits. This is still fun and great experience.

What service or product do people you know need that could be fulfilled by a startup?

Is there something that could be invented and patented to meet that need?

Look around and see which people or companies could be partnered together to effect some great new advantage. If they almost fit but there’s a part missing, that part is the startup.

Look around and see which people impress you the most that are not yet celebs. Who knows the most about the subjects you’ve been thinking about when you think about a particular startup opportunity.

Make sure all of your present business relationships benefit, by optimizing the startup that way. Some of your business partners could actually be doing business with the startup from day one, and might seek strategic interest in it.

Find people who are blown away by the opportunity and are the best people to run it and then incentivize them to do so. Make sure they can feel the stock in their hands. Lead at first so they see the direction and then ask them to make decisions without you (establishing protocols for exceptions where the top people cannot agree).

Continue to knock one out of the park weekly for each of your consulting clients or your employer while doing your startup. Make that your number one business priority each week and rely upon the team you have put in place to run the startup. Make sure their benefits are tangible even if only on paper at first. A startup without sufficient drive will not succeed. Action items must not drag on.

Know how to not be knocked out in the first round. A long time ago, the right decision would have been to downsize my company to Jim Bell, myself, and one known employee in the basement of One State Street Plaza, running the Centigram machines and doing everything else. Looking out from my office on the 31st floor at the Statue of Liberty with pontoon planes landing in the water around it and feeling the 34 warm bodies in the adjoining offices, I took another path that closed that startup within a year. At least it gave Modem Media a clear field in which to make its high mark. Both companies were headed toward the same space.

War stories are part of the fun of the game of life — especially when we “get” the lesson.

Wishing you all fun in the game of all games, Life,

Bill 

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The Game of Life

Volume 3, Issue 40

In my Cosmopoly, a game form of my cosmology, we seek to mirror the intuited Self having all these lives, including the life through us as an individual. To the Self it is just a game and since we are the Self why don’t we just wake up to our true role or, if that is too unbelievable right now, play it that way anyway?

What do you have to lose?

Like everyone else, you’ve already made it tough enough on yourself. Couldn’t you use a little relief?

Why not even as purest fantasy, impossible to conceive. Nevertheless let’s just play along with Bill in this funny crazy game… at least unless it becomes too risky or not fun.

There really isn’t any risk because whenever you see any non-fun coming, you drop out of warp. Just try warp with me for a little while, provisionally. Trekkies welcome.

Imagine it is at least scientifically possible (even if you can’t picture it or it sounds too good to be true) that there is one Self, kind of like an optimized Mind — at essence a form of biocomputer. It’s all that ever existed, It will always exist, and It will always be the only thing that exists.

And what you think of as your identity, your sense of being yourself, is actually an active bit of the One Mind that is assigned to your coordinates. It’s living through you.

The Game is to see how long It takes to wake up in each specific role and “challenge-environment”. To wake up and realize who It really is. And what It can really do, even in this attenuated-self version.

Knowledge is power. The power to do good — if this Knowledge we’re talking about is our own inner knowledge of our own true identity. Even if you’re only accepting this as a trying-on of something you might decide to buy, like a new dress or suit. A working hypothesis to be confirmed or disconfirmed — which way shall the evidence point? That’s part of the game. The part we are at now, on Earth.

The process of waking up during our lives, whether or not we are guided by this working hypothesis, always involves a thousand adjustments we must make to ourselves consciously and effortfully as we go along.

Some individual adjustments take lifetimes.

Take a review of where you are at the moment:

  1. For whatever reasons, is there anything happening with your body that you could be paying more attention to and resolving?
  2. Same question about your mind.
  3. What about personal appearance?
  4. What about people in your life, now or in the past, with whom you still have bad feelings?
  5. Are you doing the work you really want to and should be doing?
  6. Are you having moments of fear? Anger? Envy? Melancholy? Greed? Cruelty? 

If you have cleared away most of these adjustments, you are likely to be in and out of the Flow state and usually sustaining the Observer state. And pretty happy most of the time, behaving as the mensch you are, encouraging, mentoring, taking care of other people, loving as many and as much as you can.

Perhaps you agree with some of what I say but consider it arrogant to equate oneself with the Deity, with whom one must always take a surrendering posture. In fact we agree on the surrendering posture, yet the only story I can calculate in optimizing agreement with all observables, is that there could only logically have ever been one point of light, the self-referential Observer Itself. This premise is explored in depth in my upcoming book You Are The Universe: Imagine That!

We surrender in many ways. The most meaningful is the surrendering of existential sloth, eagerly accepting the many challenges to make the adjustments needed to actually make all the connections back to the great Spiritual Mind of the Universe. Honoring the Whole of which we are an aspect is obviously the only sane response to the situation. Playing the (W)Holy Game each day, making the adjustments pointed out to us. Reading situations this way rather than cluttering them up with stuff that is only logical until you realize the process of the game underneath the little games you’re playing on the surface of each day. 

My best to you all, as you,

Bill

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